dress your age

ok, so I’m 44, have two kids (8 and 10), but I feel young, I’m very fit, active, and most people guess my age a decade younger. So, I’m not ready to wear floral golf shirts paired with polyester shorts and generic sneakers with black socks halfway up my leg (is that a good enough description of the stereotype I’m deathly afraid of?). I like to dress with style and without succumbing to the more boring choices that seem to creep in with “age.” I still care about how I look. Just to be clear, I don’t graviate towards the kinds of clothes the typical highschool kid wears – I’m not that bad. What to do?